Mambo Samantha Corfield

Why Use a Love Spell?

Why Use a Love Spell?

by Mambo Samantha Corfield

So many people have asked me over the last 25 years, why even use a voodoo love spell (or any love spell for that matter)? To me, it is a matter of practicality! Why not use something that can be helpful spiritually, physically, and mentally? If you are using a well-crafted love spell, took your time to learn what is ethical and what is not, and are approaching this project with a good and honest heart, then love spells are perfect for you!

So how do you tell if the love spells you are going to do are the right thing? Here is a list of things that make certain love spells, when done correctly, completely ethical and reasonable to use:

• Always make sure you are approaching your love spell with an honest heart. You want this person to love you, of course. But you must also, most importantly, be offering your complete love in return. You must never approach your love spell from a point of ego, trying to just get what you want. You have to keep the love in love spell!
• Your love spell must be cast with the other person's best interest at heart, not just yours. It can't be all about you and what you want. Is being with you better for the person than not being with you? If you truly believe that it is, you are in the right frame of mind for love spell casting.
• You understand that you might not get what you are asking for. This is probably the most difficult thing to accept when casting a love spell: Sometimes it just doesn't work in the way you hope it will. There are lots of reasons for this that are outlined on our Frequently Asked Questions page, but sometimes the reason is just that it wasn't right for you (or them). And many times, the spells work in a completely unexpected but amazingly wonderful ways! Truth is, it doesn't hurt to try and they certainly won't work if you don't do them.
• If you aren't casting your own spells, make sure you feel comfortable with the person who is casting for you. They should have complete information clearly stated and a clear and accessible point of contact. If your gut tells you the person isn't right for you, don't use them. Listen to your own intuition!
• The same goes for love spell products - make sure you are getting products that are carefully crafted by the persons selling them (avoid cheap rip off stuff that is not made by your practitioners or under their supervision).

If you believe in the power of prayer, meditation, positive thinking, affirmations, etc., then spell work is definitely for you! Spell casting is a faith-based endeavor. There is everything to gain by trying an esoteric approach to your life and really nothing to lose. (If you believe things you see in movies and on TV about spells being "bad" - then you probably shouldn't cast them or have them cast for you. Those things are never true, but if you have in your head that they are, then love spell casting should not be in your life!)

I hope this helps you in your choice of whether or not to use love spells. I have more written about my love spell philosophy written here if you want to read more! Thanks for taking the time to read this. I appreciate you!

In Service, 

Mambo Sam

Day of household deities!

 

The Day of Household Deities!

Household deities, often overlooked in modern discussions the mysteries, hold a significant place around the world. These deities, guardians of the hearth and home, are celebrated in numerous traditions and rituals. One such celebration is "The Day of Household Deities," a festivity that honors these spiritual protectors, acknowledging their presence and expressing gratitude for their blessings. This essay explores the origins, practices, and cultural significance of this special day, shedding light on the enduring relationship between humans and their household gods.

Origins and Historical Context

The veneration of household deities dates back to ancient times when people believed that their homes were protected by specific gods or spirits. These deities were thought to ensure the well-being, prosperity, and harmony of the household. In ancient Rome, for instance, the Lares and Penates were the gods of the household and storeroom, respectively. The Lares were considered guardians of the home and ancestors who watched over their descendants, while the Penates were associated with the pantry and the provision of food. These deities were honored with daily rituals and offerings, emphasizing their importance in everyday life.

Similarly, in ancient Greece, the Hestia was the goddess of the hearth, home, and family. As the central figure in domestic worship, Hestia's flame was never allowed to go out, symbolizing the continuous protection and warmth of the home. In many other cultures, such as the Slavic, Celtic, and Asian traditions, household deities played a crucial role in maintaining the sanctity and safety of the home.

"The Day of Household Deities" is a day set aside to honor and thank these benevolent spirits. The significance of this day lies in the recognition of the unseen forces that contribute to the happiness and prosperity of a household. By dedicating a specific day to these deities, people reaffirm their respect and gratitude, ensuring that the relationship between the mortal and the divine remains strong.

This day serves as a reminder of the intimate connection between the spiritual and the mundane. It highlights the belief that everyday activities, such as cooking, cleaning, and maintaining the household, are imbued with spiritual significance. The Day of Household Deities is not just about grand rituals but also about the small, daily acts of devotion that sustain the home and its inhabitants.

Practices and Rituals

The celebration of The Day of Household Deities varies widely across cultures, but certain common practices can be identified. These rituals often involve cleaning and purifying the home, preparing special meals, and making offerings to the household gods.

1. Cleaning and Purification: The day typically begins with a thorough cleaning of the home. This act of purification is believed to remove negative energies and create a welcoming environment for the deities. In some cultures, this includes sweeping, dusting, and washing, while in others, it may involve more elaborate purification rites with incense, herbs, or holy water.

2. Altar Preparation: Many households set up a special altar or shrine dedicated to their household deities. This altar may be a permanent fixture in the home or temporarily set up for the occasion. It is adorned with flowers, candles, and images or symbols of the deities. Offerings of food, drink, and other items are placed on the altar as a gesture of gratitude and reverence.

3. Offering of Food: Food plays a central role in the celebration. Special dishes are prepared, often using recipes passed down through generations. These meals are offered to the deities before being shared with family members. The act of offering food symbolizes the sharing of sustenance and blessings between the divine and the mortal realms.

4. Prayers and Invocations: Prayers, chants, and invocations are recited to honor the household deities. These may be traditional prayers or spontaneous expressions of gratitude and supplication. In some cultures, specific hymns or songs are sung, creating a festive and reverent atmosphere.

5. Family Gatherings: The Day of Household Deities is often a time for family gatherings. Relatives come together to celebrate, share meals, and participate in rituals. This reinforces the bonds of family and community, emphasizing the collective nature of the celebration.

Cultural Variations

While the core elements of The Day of Household Deities remain consistent, the specific practices and deities honored can vary significantly across cultures.

• Roman Tradition: In Roman culture, the Lares and Penates were honored with small statues placed in household shrines. Offerings of food, wine, and incense were made daily, with special emphasis on festivals such as the Compitalia, a celebration dedicated to the Lares.

• Chinese Tradition: In Chinese culture, the Kitchen God (Zao Jun) is a key household deity. The Day of Household Deities is often associated with the Kitchen God Festival, where families offer sweets and sticky rice to the deity. It is believed that these offerings sweeten the Kitchen God's report to the Jade Emperor about the family's behavior over the past year.

• Japanese Tradition: In Japan, the Kamidana (god shelf) is a small Shinto shrine found in many homes. The Day of Household Deities involves cleaning the Kamidana, offering sake and food, and praying for the well-being of the family. The Kamidana houses various kami (gods or spirits) who protect the household.

• Slavic Tradition: In Slavic folklore, the Domovoi is a household spirit believed to protect the home and its inhabitants. On The Day of Household Deities, families clean their homes, offer bread and milk to the Domovoi, and seek the spirit's blessing for prosperity and protection.

Witchcraft and Household Deities

The practice of witchcraft often involves the veneration of household deities, with many witches maintaining altars or shrines dedicated to these spirits. Household deities in witchcraft are considered essential allies, offering protection, guidance, and blessings. The Day of Household Deities is particularly significant for practitioners of witchcraft, as it aligns with their belief in the sacredness of the home and the presence of spiritual beings within it.

1. Witchcraft Altars: Witches often create altars in their homes to honor household deities. These altars may include representations of the deities, crystals, herbs, candles, and other magical tools. The altars serve as focal points for daily rituals and offerings, reinforcing the bond between the witch and the household spirits.

2. Offerings and Spells: On The Day of Household Deities, witches might prepare special offerings such as cakes, wine, or herbs. These offerings are given in gratitude for the protection and blessings provided by the household deities. Additionally, witches may perform spells for home protection, prosperity, and harmony, invoking the deities' aid in these matters.

3. Ritual Cleansing: Cleansing rituals are integral to witchcraft, and The Day of Household Deities provides an opportunity for witches to thoroughly cleanse their homes of negative energies. This may involve smudging with sage or other sacred herbs, sprinkling salt or holy water, and using sound (such as bells or chimes) to purify the space.

In contemporary times, The Day of Household Deities may seem like a quaint tradition, but it holds enduring relevance. In a fast-paced, technology-driven world, this celebration offers a moment to pause, reflect, and reconnect with the spiritual aspects of daily life. It serves as a reminder of the importance of home, family, and community, and the need to cultivate gratitude and mindfulness.

Moreover, The Day of Household Deities can be seen as a celebration of the sacred in the ordinary. It emphasizes that spirituality is not confined to temples or churches but is present in the everyday activities of the home. This perspective encourages people to find meaning and purpose in their daily routines, fostering a sense of reverence for life itself.

For practitioners of witchcraft, this day is an affirmation of their belief in the interconnection between the physical and spiritual worlds. It validates their practices and reinforces their commitment to maintaining harmony and balance in their lives.

The Day of Household Deities is a celebration that transcends cultural boundaries, highlighting the universal human need to acknowledge and honor the unseen forces that shape our lives. Through rituals of cleaning, offering, and prayer, people express their gratitude to the deities who protect and bless their homes. This day serves as a poignant reminder of the sacredness of the home and the enduring bond between the mortal and the divine. In a world that often overlooks the spiritual in favor of the material, The Day of Household Deities calls us back to a deeper appreciation of the simple, everyday acts that sustain and nourish us. For practitioners of witchcraft, it is a day to reaffirm their connection to the household spirits, celebrating the magic and mystery of the home.

In service, 

Mambo Sam

Embracing the Summer Solstice: A Celebration of Light and Witchcraft

Embracing the Summer Solstice: A Celebration of Light and Witchcraft

The Summer Solstice, known as Litha in many Pagan traditions, marks the longest day and shortest night of the year. This astronomical event, occurring between June 20 and June 22 in the Northern Hemisphere, holds profound significance in the world of witchcraft and Paganism. The term “solstice” is derived from the Latin words “sol” (sun) and “sistere” (to stand still), symbolizing the sun at its zenith. This moment, when the sun appears to stand still, offers a powerful opportunity for magic, celebration, and deep connection with the Earth.

Historical and Cultural Significance

Historically, the Summer Solstice has been revered by various cultures around the world. Ancient civilizations, such as the Egyptians, Mayans, and Druids, built monuments aligned with the sun’s path, demonstrating their reverence for this day. Stonehenge in England and the Great Pyramids of Giza are prime examples of how ancient peoples honored the Solstice. These structures served not only as calendars but also as places for ritualistic celebrations, emphasizing the importance of the sun and its life-giving energy.

In many cultures, the Solstice is associated with themes of fertility, renewal, and abundance. For instance, in Scandinavia, Midsummer festivals involve dancing around maypoles, singing traditional songs, and feasting. These activities symbolize the peak of summer’s vitality and the beginning of the harvest season. Similarly, Indigenous peoples of North America honor the Solstice with ceremonies that include dancing, drumming, and storytelling, paying homage to the Earth and the sun’s nourishing power.

The Spiritual and Magical Connection

For witches and Pagans, the Summer Solstice is a time to celebrate the power of the sun and the abundance of nature. Litha, as it is often called, is a Sabbat—a festival within the Wheel of the Year—that marks a high point in the solar cycle. This day is imbued with potent energy, making it ideal for various magical workings and rituals.

1. Honoring the Sun

The sun, at its zenith, is a symbol of strength, vitality, and life. Many Solstice rituals focus on honoring this celestial body. One popular tradition is to greet the dawn with sun salutations or meditations, absorbing the sun’s energy and allowing it to invigorate your spirit. Some practitioners also create sun wheels or mandalas, using flowers, herbs, and other natural materials to represent the sun’s power and beauty.

2. Fire Magic

Fire, representing the sun’s warmth and light, is a central element in many Litha celebrations. Bonfires are a traditional way to celebrate the Solstice, with participants dancing, singing, and jumping over the flames to purify and bless themselves. This act is believed to bring good fortune and drive away negative energies. Fire magic can also be incorporated into spellwork, using candles, herbs, and incense to harness the sun’s energy for protection, healing, and manifestation.

3. Connecting with Nature

Litha is a time to immerse oneself in nature, appreciating the Earth’s abundance and beauty. Many witches take this opportunity to perform rituals outdoors, in forests, gardens, or by bodies of water. Gathering herbs, flowers, and other natural materials for spellwork and rituals is a common practice. Popular herbs for the Solstice include St. John’s Wort, lavender, and chamomile, which are believed to carry the sun’s energy and enhance magical workings.

Magical Practices and Rituals

The heightened energy of the Summer Solstice makes it an ideal time for various magical practices and rituals. Here are some ways to celebrate Litha and harness its power:

1. Creating an Altar

Set up an altar dedicated to the Summer Solstice, adorned with symbols of the season. Include sunflowers, candles, crystals like citrine and sunstone, and representations of solar deities. Use this space for meditation, prayer, or spellwork, allowing the altar to serve as a focal point for your magical intentions.

2. Performing Solstice Spells

The Solstice’s vibrant energy is perfect for spells related to growth, abundance, and transformation. Consider performing spells to manifest your desires, enhance your personal power, or attract prosperity. Use herbs, candles, and crystals associated with the sun to amplify your intentions.

3. Ritual Bathing

A ritual bath can cleanse and rejuvenate your body and spirit. Prepare a bath with sun-charged water, adding herbs and essential oils like rosemary, lavender, and chamomile. As you soak, visualize the sun’s energy infusing you with strength and vitality, washing away any negativity.

4. Divination and Reflection

The Solstice is a powerful time for divination and self-reflection. Use tarot cards, runes, or scrying to gain insight into your life and future. Reflect on your personal growth over the past year and set intentions for the months ahead. The sun’s clarity can illuminate your path and guide you toward your goals.

Community and Celebration

The Summer Solstice is also a time for communal celebration. Many Pagans and witches gather for group rituals, festivals, and feasts. Sharing food, music, and dance with like-minded individuals can enhance the sense of connection and amplify the magical energy of the day. Whether through large public gatherings or intimate circles, celebrating with others can create a powerful and memorable Solstice experience.

1. Group Rituals

Group rituals are a wonderful way to celebrate the Solstice with a community. These rituals can include circle casting, invocations of the sun and Earth, and shared spellwork. Group energy can be incredibly potent, and working together can deepen the connections among participants. Consider organizing or attending a local Solstice gathering to experience the magic of community.

2. Feasting and Sharing Food

Feasting is a central part of many Solstice celebrations. Sharing a meal with others is a way to honor the Earth’s abundance and foster a sense of community. Prepare a feast using seasonal and locally sourced ingredients, and share the food with friends and family. As you eat, take time to express gratitude for the Earth’s gifts and the company of those around you.

3. Music and Dance

Music and dance are powerful ways to celebrate the Solstice. Create or join a drum circle, dance around a bonfire, or simply play music that uplifts your spirit. Movement and rhythm can help you connect with the Earth’s energy and the joy of the season. Allow yourself to be free and expressive, embracing the vitality and warmth of the Solstice.

Honoring the Earth through Sustainable Practices

Another way to honor the Summer Solstice is by adopting sustainable practices that support the health of the planet. This can include reducing your use of single-use plastics, conserving water, supporting local and organic farming, and reducing your carbon footprint. By making conscious choices that benefit the Earth, you can contribute to the wellbeing of the planet and honor the interconnectedness of all life.

1. Supporting Local Agriculture

Supporting local agriculture by buying from farmers’ markets or participating in community-supported agriculture (CSA) programs is a great way to honor the Earth. Local produce is often fresher and more environmentally friendly, as it reduces the carbon footprint associated with transportation. Plus, it supports local farmers and strengthens your connection to the land.

2. Reducing Waste

Reducing waste is an important aspect of sustainable living. During your Solstice celebrations, aim to minimize waste by using reusable plates, cups, and utensils. Compost food scraps and recycle whenever possible. By being mindful of your consumption, you can lessen your environmental impact and show respect for the Earth.

3. Conserving Water

Water conservation is another crucial element of sustainability. Be conscious of your water use, especially during outdoor activities and rituals. Collect rainwater for your garden, fix leaks, and use water-saving techniques in your home. By valuing and conserving water, you honor this vital resource and the Earth’s ecosystems.

Conclusion

The Summer Solstice, or Litha, is a time of immense power and beauty. For witches and Pagans, it offers a unique opportunity to honor the sun, connect with nature, and perform potent magic. By celebrating this sacred day, we can align ourselves with the rhythms of the Earth, harness the sun’s energy, and embrace the abundance of life.

As we mark the longest day of the year, let us remember the interconnectedness of all things and the cycles that sustain us. The Summer Solstice is not just an astronomical event but a reminder of the magic and wonder that exists in the world. Whether through solitary rituals or communal celebrations, embracing the Solstice allows us to deepen our connection with the Earth and our own spiritual journey.

In a world that often feels disconnected from nature, the Summer Solstice serves as a reminder of our profound connection to the Earth. By taking time to celebrate and honor this day, we can rekindle our relationship with the natural world and find inspiration in its beauty and resilience. Whether through simple rituals or grand celebrations, the Solstice invites us to pause, reflect, and celebrate the gift of life.

In Service, 

Mambo Sam

Are you afraid to love completely?

Afraid to Love Completely?
by Mambo Samantha Corfield

Very often my clients tell me that they are "afraid to love" completely. Now, of course, we all fear being hurt. Many of us will hold back and not give ourselves fully into loving someone at first. We want to wait... we want to see if our feelings are returned. Putting it out there fully and completely is quite scary!

However... and this is a BIG however, if you are doing love spell work and yet you are afraid to give your heart completely then you may be running a very real risk of sabotaging your own spell work!

Think about this: If you are approaching the relationship you are trying to get or fix with fear, holding some of your feelings back, and being afraid that you might get hurt, then what kind of energy are you putting into your spell work? What you put into your spell work is most often what you get out of it. If you are putting fear and holding back your love because you might get hurt, then that is likely what you will get back.

Perfect love spell work must be done in perfect love. Now, spell work doesn't have to be perfect to work for you! Hey, we all make mistakes, and there is a certain level of "accident forgiveness" built into our spell work. However, it is really important to think about how YOU are feeling towards the relationship you are trying to be in. Are you angry? Are you afraid? Are you afraid to truly love that person because you may never get them? What if I told you that you may never get the because you are afraid to truly love them???

There are those among us who feel like it is not worth it to fully love someone. It is too risky. We might get hurt. We might get dumped. We might not get that love returned to us. However, if you are not willing to take the risk then you can never reap the wonderful, incredible, dizzying rewards of truly being in love. The old saying that, "It is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all" is just so true.

There is no more powerful emotion than love. If you are not willing to allow yourself to experience it, even if it seems one-sided right now, then you are doing yourself (and your spell work) a terrible disservice.

If you feel that perhaps you have been this person, I would like to suggest that you do something about it! :-) There is no point in getting upset if this has been you. Instead, make yourself the promise to no longer be that person! If you have been deeply afraid or angry or half-hearted in allowing yourself to love the person you want to be in a relationship with, then I am going to suggest that you do something such as Erzulie Freda's Love Bath or perhaps some pink gender candles (in the gender of each of you - you and the person you want to be with) and ask that you allow yourself to feel this love again! Petition that you will not be a blockage to your own feelings of love, that even though right now those feelings might be bittersweet, you will allow yourself to feel them, relish them, wallow in them! THEN start back on your spell work or adjunct work - whatever you are working on right now.

Think of doing something like your love doll with the pulsing ecstasy of love that truly beats in your heart for your special person! Even if you feel like your love is one-sided right now, love is still a positive emotion! Allow yourself to feel it, really feel it, and then go do a love doll session or a candle session.

Trust me, I know that this can be a painful journey sometimes. But don't sabotage it by not allowing yourself to fully commit to the love that you want. Your love is real, so really feel it!

Love, light, and peace,
Mambo Samantha Corfield