Hello everyone! Getting back to our series on Making Healthy Decisions - the next question we want to ask ourselves is:
Who Has Some Guidance for Me Right Now?
Generally speaking, I am not a fan of asking everyone in the world what you should do next! :-) Some of my own very dear friends will do that and, in the end, are more confused than when they started!
However, sometimes it is a very good thing to get some help from someone else. Perhaps you know someone who has experienced what you are experiencing. That is not to say that any two people may have the same outcome, but sometimes it helps to get the perspective of someone you trust.
When you need help from another person, trust your inner knowing to tell who this is. Sit and do some slow, deep breathing for two or three minutes to clear your mind. Feel yourself go into a state of receptivity, ready to hear an answer. Then ask, "Who has the right guidance for me?"
You may see a face or hear a name immediately in your mind. You may suddenly think of someone that is not the person you want to get guidance from, but perhaps they remind you of why you want to get guidance from someone else. Thought processes can be funny like that! ;-)
While I am always a proponent of making your own decisions, a little helpful guidance from someone you trust may be very helpful in making your final decision. Don't be afraid to ask! I cannot stress the "someone you trust" part enough. I have seen too many times where friends and clients asked advice from someone who really did not have their best interest at heart. Choose wisely when getting counsel on an issue that is important to you.
Just remember, no matter how much you trust the person, the decision still rests with you and it has to sit well in your soul! :-)
Love, light, and peace,
Mambo Samantha Corfield, www.spellmaker.com