PLEASE NOTE: Sorry, I accidently got these out of order! So after this will actually come Part 6 since Part 5 was already published. Sorry for the confusion!
Greetings, everyone! As we continue on with our series about making healthy decisions, we move on to our next question to ask ourselves:
What Am I Not Seeing?
We have a tendency to sometimes protect ourselves in difficult situations by not being willing to seek out what we are not wanting to see about a situation. It is something we all do - we can have a tendency to gloss over the details that are unpleasant to us. Naturally this can lead to some disasters in decision making!
Often, what we're not seeing is what we don't want to see. While it may be difficult, or sometimes even painful, force yourself to look at what you don't want to see. Hiding details from yourself is truly not helping you. Trying to force an objective, dispassionate view of the situation can be tricky and take some practice, but try it! It is very difficult for a human being to try to remove emotion from a decision. Sometimes we can trick ourselves into it by pretending that the situation actually belongs to someone else - what would we tell them that we can see?
Looking at the situation from the outside looking in can often really help us in seeing what we think might not be there! Taking off our blinders and searching for clues might be difficult, however, the end reward is completely worth it!
Love, light, and peace,
Mambo Samantha Corfield, www.spellmaker.com
