missed a day of my spell work, forgot to light the incense three days in a row, didn't do the reflection part of the spell, and, oh, didn't bother with the sand trail? Is it okay, Mambo? Will this mess up my spell work?
Greetings everyone!
Hardly a day goes by that I don't get someone asking me something "messing up" their spell work because of things they did or didn't do. Mostly it is after the fact and often is phrased as, "Is it okay that I......?"
Frankly, no, not really, it isn't okay. For sure things happen sometimes that we cannot control. However, a lot of what I hear that people did was completely avoidable. First off, READ the spell kit instructions. Getting four days into the spell work and figuring out that you forgot a step is really avoidable. Read the spell kit instructions; read them before you ever start the spell and get your questions answered. Then, use the instructions. I don't see how people miss steps when the instructions are clearly meant to be used. You don't have to memorize anything - you follow along the book.
Life can be hectic and get in the way of our spell work! No one knows that better than me! Like I said, sometimes it is totally unavoidable to miss parts of spell work, emergencies happen, etc. Truthfully, though, about 95% of the things that people do to mess up their spell work is avoidable. Be careful and thoughtful about what you are doing. If you truly, in your heart of hearts, want what you say you want from the spell work, then you should be extremely careful and dedicated to what you are doing.
You have to ask yourself, if I don't care enough to do this spell work right, do I truly want what I think I want? If you feel like the spell is too much work, or too hard to do, or takes too much of your time - do you absolutely, truly want what you think you want? As most of you know, we do, of course, offer solo castings for those folks who cannot do their own spell work for one reason or another. That is fine! But even at that, we send you a Holy Relic card to work with and I cannot believe the number of people who tell me they never used it and, "is that okay?" NO. It's not okay. You are sending out a very mixed message to Les Lois, God, and even me about what you want!
A large part of the success of spell work depends on YOU; what do you want, why do you want it, and do you really want it? What energy are you putting out there? Please think about that the next time you pick up your work to do it. If you think your spell work or adjunct work is a pain in your butt and you dread doing it, you should give some serious thought to the goal you think you want.
Have a great weekend, everyone!
Love, light, and peace,
Mambo Samantha Corfield
www.spellmaker.com