and you have to mean it! :-)
Hello everyone! I had to take a little break from blogging while Parran Matt was out of town as I had to handle the orders in the office. :-) Hopefully I didn't screw up too many of your orders. If you got something unusual, that was probably my mistake - just let us know!
Anyway, I was recently have a great consultation with a dear client of mine and, as I have on many occasions, I had the guidance that her fellow was feeling like maybe he had made too many mistakes and I felt like he was believing that her door was closed to him. I encouraged her to use whatever products she had on hand, her love doll, candles, etc., to petition towards him that, yes, they could start over, yes, her door was still open, and yes, things could work out between them; the past could be in the past and they could start over... and then....
came my admonishment, "Honey, you have to MEAN it when you say it!" :-)
So many people come to me with hurt from their relationship, having been treated badly, cheated on, etc. However, they still want to be with that person, they still love them. That part is fine. However, where the challenge can sometimes come in is that when you are doing this love spell work you absolutely, positively have to do it with pure love in your heart. You cannot feed your anger, hurt, and negative feelings into your spell work. I am not saying this is an easy thing to do. It's hard. Really hard sometimes. H owever, love spell work is about LOVE - both giving and receiving. You have to truly give it to get it.
No, I don't mean you have to take someone's bad treatment of you, that is not what I mean at all. However, you can use your spell work to try to change that bad treatment, to let the person know that you don't intend to take that treatment anymore, but it has to be with the love in your heart that you truly feel for them. However, it is not just WHAT you say, it is also how you FEEL when you say it. If you are just phoning it in, it isn't going to work for you.
I always recommend to people to not do love spell work when they are feeling angry. You have to set aside that anger, even if you can just do it for the time of the spell work. And that is kind of the trick - you can still keep your anger and your hurt (though we want to work on that, too!), just compartmentalize it. Decide before you start your work to set aside those negative feelings. You will actually feel much better for that time period, too! Do those candles or love dolls or spell castings with pure love in your heart for the person you intend to affect with your work. Just for those minutes, fantasize that nothing bad has ever happened between you - there is just pure love and joy being sent out. :-) That will definitely send out the right energy and you will feel it and you will benefit from it, too!
Try it!
Love,light, and peace,
Mambo Samantha Corfield
www.spellmaker.com