Hello everyone! Well, with the new Sex and the City movie in the theatres now, I am reminded of how many letters I used to receive referencing different themes and characters on the television show. Whether you loved, hated, or could have cared less about the show, many of our clients often saw themselves or their relationships correlated in the episodes of the show. I definitely had a love-hate relationship with the show as I wearied of otherwise intelligent women telling me that they were "so Carrie." ;-)
At any rate, there was an episode talking about the "za za zsu" in a successful relationship; that crazy, romantic, fabulous time period when intimacy between a couple was warm, exciting, and extremely close and loving. :-) In other words, romantic sex appeal - not just the instinct and desire to have sex with someone, but the desire to have that sex with the person who was special to you.
I started thinking about this the other day when I was preparing candle magick kits for shipping. Red male candle magick kits were flying out the door! Passionate love! And believe me there is nothing wrong with that. But it got me to thinking, what about the romance?
What about those pink male candle magick kits? ;-) I wanted to share with you part of a letter I received a couple of months ago from a client. Here it is:
"...and even though Teddy and I have been doing okay after I finished my spell kits, I really felt like we were missing romance in our life. He is a scientist and spends his day proving and disproving scientific theory for a lab. He can sometimes be very unromantic simply because he is someone who is very practical. Anyway, I went ahead and got the BMS pink male candle magick kits. When I was doing them I put some Abre Camino oil on the candle too and paid some special attention to the genital area (sorry for being so graphic). I petitioned that the next time we were making love that he would feel warm and romantic. I pictured us melting into each other just like the candle was melting. About a week after I finished up the trio we were being intimate when he suddenly looked at me and said, "I feel like I am melting into you." I was so shocked that I almost started laughing and crying at the same time. Luckily we were so busy that he didn't notice..."
I thought that was a pretty amazing letter! Just the idea of even using the petition to be melting into each other just like the candle was melting was pretty innovative, I thought. Sometimes we get so wrapped up in trying to bring someone's love to us, we forget that most of us want something warm and fuzzy in that love, too. Although this particular client was already with her HD, I don't see any reason that a person couldn't do the pink candle magick kits in this way even if you aren't already with them. Bringing up romantic images of you in your HD's mind can only help your case!
There is a pretty fine distinction when we are talking about love and romance. Of course we want our partner to love us! But I am sure plenty of you know both men and women who may love quite well, but have missed the mark in the romance department. If you are a person who also wants to make sure that romance stays alive in the relationship you are working on, I would suggest throwing a little pink candle magick into it! Maybe soon you will be melting in his arms, too, and feeling that za za zsu! ;-)
Love, Mambo Sam
